Tim Wildmon

Hate group leader Tim Wildmon of American Family Association contributed a piece to his local newspaper titled Hope Springs Eternal. It invites commentary through email. I thought that I would oblige:

Dear Mr. Wildmon:

I want to quote one passage from your thoughtful piece:

But the people I most admire are those who have had
terrible, things happen to them; yet they get through those
difficult times and maintain hope for a better day tomorrow by
trusting in God.

Among terrible things that people endure is the antipathy that you
project towards gay children and their parents. While you have made
their lives more terrible there is not one less gay person in the
world because of your disapproval. Not one. The same can be said of
the transgender children who have become your favorite hobby of
late. Have you considered for one second the uphill climb in life
that they must commit to while you are smearing them as predatory

Most of these kids will survive childhood (although you do have some
blood on your hands). Some will be people of faith. Overall, they
are some of the most courageous people I know. They will become
doctors and lawyers, cops and firemen, machinists and CEOs. They
will still be gay or trans and they will make valuable and positive
contributions to society. Some will also become parents and by all
accounts they will probably do a pretty good job of raising kids.
Their children will also suffer at your hands because you demonize
their parents.

I am not a Christian but I do not think that Christ would have
wanted his teachings used as a blunt force instrument of hate. Do
you really want to pass this along to your children?

I am a retired CEO and have learned to greatly appreciate
introspection in myself and others. Perhaps this holiday season you
will consider some of the damage that you have done. If you are
really an honorable man perhaps you will consider how you might
mitigate at least some of the harm that you have inflicted on
others. I doubt that you will do either. That gives you the
opportunity to prove me a cynic.

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

David C. Hart – South Beach


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By David Cary Hart

Retired CEO. Formerly a W.E. Deming-trained quality-management consultant. Now just a cranky Jewish queer. Gay cis. He/Him/His.